Look, getting full custody as a dad in Massachusetts isn’t impossible. It happens. The courts just care about one thing – what’s best for your kid. They don’t play favorites between moms and dads anymore. That said, you’ve got to make your case.
Legal framework and requirements
The court needs solid proof that you should be the only one making the big decisions and having the kid live with you full-time. Maybe the other parent has serious issues – drug problems, abuse history, mental health stuff that puts the kid at risk. You need evidence, not just accusations.
Key considerations:
Your kid comes first. Period. The judge wants to see:
- How stable is your home life?
- Can you handle school meetings, doctor visits, and all that?
- Are you there for your kid day-to-day?
Here’s the thing about older kids – the judge might ask what they want. But a kid saying “I want to live with Dad” isn’t enough on its own.
Practical implications:
Been the main parent all along? That helps. Courts like keeping things stable. But even if you’re pushing for full custody, showing you’ll let the kid have a relationship with their mom (unless there’s a safety issue) looks good to the judge.
Advisory note:
Talk to a family lawyer. They know the local courts and judges. They’ll help you put together a case that works.
Remember: Full custody is possible but must be justified through clear and convincing evidence that this arrangement optimally serves the child’s interests.
