Listen — if someone’s harassing you, you’ve got options. Let’s walk through the steps to protect yourself legally and practically.
Getting started: document everything
Think of yourself as a detective. Write down every single thing that happens:
- When and where did it occur?
- What exactly went down?
- Who else saw it?
Screenshots are your friend. Save those texts, emails, social posts – anything that shows what’s happening. Your future self will thank you.
Different situations call for different approaches:
At Work
Head straight to HR or your boss. Most companies have specific rules about this stuff – use them to your advantage. Get it in writing, always.
At School
Talk to someone in charge—the principal, dean, or counselor. Schools take this seriously these days, so make sure they know you’re making a formal complaint.
If you’re dealing with threats or feeling unsafe:
Police Report Filing
Walk into your local station with your evidence. Be direct about why you’re worried. Remember: threats and stalking are crimes, not just annoyances.
Sometimes you need the law to step in. Florida offers several flavors of protection. Available Orders:
- Domestic Violence Protection
- Dating Violence Protection
- Stalking/Cyberstalking Protection
To get one: Visit your county courthouse. Bring your documentation. They’ll help you file the paperwork.
Consider bringing in a lawyer if:
- Things are escalating
- You’re getting pushback
- The system seems overwhelming
Remember: You’re not overreacting by taking these steps. Harassment is serious, and you deserve to feel safe.
