Let’s face it – getting divorced isn’t quick. The whole thing can drag on depending on whether you and your spouse are fighting or playing nice. Here’s what you need to know about timing in New Jersey:
When Everyone Gets Along
If you and your ex agree on everything (money, kids, who gets what), you’re looking at about 3-6 months from start to finish. This includes all the paperwork and court stuff. Not too bad, right?
When It Gets Messy
If you’re arguing about things, buckle up – it usually takes a year or longer. Could be way longer if you’ve got a complicated situation or the courts are backed up. Some divorces drag on for years when couples dig their heels in.
The Separation Rule
Important: For a no-fault divorce (where you’re saying “We just don’t get along anymore”), the law says you need to live apart for 18 months first. But if you’re divorcing because of something specific like cheating or abuse, you can file right away – no waiting period required.
Want to speed things up? Get a decent lawyer and try mediation instead of fighting it out in court. Trust me, it’ll save you time and probably money too.
